Wednesday, November 28, 2007

My Momma was released from the hospital this morning, she was transported to the health care facility, that she currently resides at as a non care needed resident....only this time she is in the full care end of the facility...she has edema in her legs and belly, her legs are looking much better, however she cannot use them, she cannot walk, she cannot stand, she cannot move at all without help...and even then it is hard to move her about...she promised me that she would not give up, that she would do all of the physical therapy, that she would work on getting better. I am thankful for my mom....she loves me, and appreciates me and she tells me every time i go to see her.
i know how hard it can be this time of year to be in the place where she is, i see the residents that are so happy all the time, and then there are those, who have given up hope and are waiting to die...it is very sad, very sad. I often wonder which is worse to be gone so quickly like Damon, or to live like this, no one visiting, with out hope. I also think of the care givers, how hard it must be for them to try to encourage those, w/o families, how draining and thankless their work must be....cannot we not even take a moment for our elderly, they took care of us when we were young, cannot we not take a half hour for them...the bible states what we sow, so we shall reap...what we give, we get...take the time to visit with someone today, take a half hour to stop at a hosp, or a rest home and make someones day better....you will be the one blessed for your time and they will too...i am guilty of this, seems i am always in a hurry to get home, what is the hurry, compared to eternity?
Today was the first day back to work, it is nice to know that i was missed, several people stopped by my desk, emailed me and said they had missed me and was glad i was back....what a blessing to receive encouragement.
i want to be a blessing to those around me, i want to be an encourager, i want to take the time to listen and console, just like my Jesus does for me....i want to be a living bible to all of those the Lord places in my path...I am Thankful tonite, I am thankful and appreciative of the many blessings...keep on the firling line saints, our redemption draweth nigh.

3 comments:

emily said...

Where I work part time I see a lot of that. It is a retirement home. Most of the people I see are happy but there are those who you can tell are just ready to go home. One day I got to work early and I was opening some stock we had gotten in. As I was opening a box, a lady that I had seen often was walking towards me and she was crying. I asked her if she was okay and she stopped and looked at me and said "some days are just so hard." I really didn't know what to say. I have seen her since then and she seems fine. I think it is even harder for the elderly who are in a home- even those with families- because they see people dying around them everyday. I think that would be very difficult. I try to smile no matter what I see in hopes that it may help. I hear smiles are contagious. I am so glad that your mama is getting better and is going to do her therapy. Make sure she wears her compression hose- no matter how tough they are to get on- they really do help with circulation and getting rid of that edema.
Love you and appreciate you.

Katie said...

You are a gem Em, truly a bright shining sparkle in my life...thank you.

Kasey said...

I mim u mama